" my sophie.... my soph!"

asher LOVES sophia. he always has. sadly, she didn't reciprocate those feelings until recently. it was kind of crazy because she actually had some sort of sibling-rivalry thing going on with him for at least the first year of his life. i think she actually adjusted better when liam was born! lately she has been more loving to him and even told me a few weeks ago, "mindi, asher is my favorite friend." last weekend we stopped by their house to visit and asher did not want to go home. when we put him in the car her cried, "my sophie... my soph!" over and over and over again the whole way home. it breaks my heart because addi is his soph and i know he misses her the same as we do. it's just not fair being the second child with no one to play with.